DADIII ... KAHANI SUNAAO NAA :)

hi blog .. hru??
im gud.. :) ..
but u know?? my grand ma .. dadi ji .. sisnt well.. day before yest she had fever.. and yest she fell off twice.. .. she is 89 years old.. so she isint well at all.. doctor said that she might not live for more than one week :/ .. call all ur relatives n all.. i was with her yest and today .. :/ par vo to weak hain bus.. itni buri condition to nahi lag ri.. mad doctor !!! :( .. i know nothing can happen to her..

thats my mom on the left and dadi ji on the right ;) saas bahu :P.. dono pareshaan lag rahi hain :P

i helped her eat her food.. change her clothes.. clean her bed n all.. im with her since last 2 days.. :\ .. al most.. maan !! i dun wanna loose her !! im the only girl child my family has.. only girl so i have been pampered like ne thing.. and my dadi pampered me the most.. i have spent most of my childhood with her.. in her room.. making all the drawing n craft things in her room ..when i was a kid.. once i made her dance with me.. ball dance.. and she fell off.. and a second later i was also on the floor !! i have spent so many mornings in the ground near my old house .. where my tau ji and all along with my dadi live.. me dadi and ankit used to feed the ants with wheat flour .. :) and she used to tell us stories... :) and evenings in the temple nearby :).. she used to sing bhajans.. n ankit n i.. we used to play in the ground :)

i remember.. when i was a kid.. ( a notorious kid ; ) ) ... we had a joint family.. all of the 11 members used to sit in fornt of the tv in the living room.. and watch mahabharat on sunday mornings... i was sittin between dadi n mom on the sofa.. mom was asking me to eat some stuff..
mom said.. gudia open ur mouth .. ur eating or not..
i said.. no mom .. i wont open..
mom said .. gudia.. open.. or ill give u a tight slap..
me.. noo i wont open.. noo mummyy...
mom said.. gudia.. ur gettin on my nerves.. open or else..

mom ne haath uthaya... mujhe padhne hi wala thaa .. ki.. mai jhuk gai..
and gues what?? slap pada dadi ko.. :))

and dadi was like.. sarita(mom) what did u do??? ye gudiaa bhi naaa !! and then mom n dadi both slapped me :/ hehe .. but that was fun !! i dunno.. how n y i did tht.. but that was a scene.. maan !! my mom slapped her mother in law.. in front of the whole family :)) .. ok that was by mistake :D .. galti ho gai ..

then there was one time.. during the 1992 riots... schools were off.. work places were closed.. me my chacha ji .. ankit .. n sachin.. we were playin cricket.. and the ball reached our neighbours terrace.. now i was the only girl.. and all the others were guys.. n adventure is the most imp part of their lives.. we all decided to climb the 6 feet tall wall.. and then climb neighbours tarrace.. well.. we did that.. mission accomplished.. but while gettin down.. i lost balance.. and fell off.. ok ok i was.. 8years old i guess.. i dunno.. i fell off the wall.. into the shrubs that my dadi had planted... back ache.. my dadi .. took care of me.. ointments.. hot water bags.. heaters.. :) she took care of me all night :)

even when i left that house.. and came to this one.. she made it a point to call me.. i have videos of her.. learning how to operate a cell phone.. :D ..there was one time..when i gave her my cell so that she cud talk to bua ji. when i got back to her.. i saw her trying to talk to bua ji.. with the mouth piece of the cell phone on her ear.. and speaker on her mouth.. hehe..

she only knows how to read n write in hindi.. but when my dad was abroad (he was in merchant navy for 7 years) she learnt how to write his address and all in english alphabets herself.. so that dadaji wont have to do that for her every time :) .. my dad has kept all those envelops .. i have seen the way she wrote it.. like a kinder garden kid wrote the address :)

i love her :)
and her leaving me will hurt me :/ .. u know.. she is just 4'8'' hehe .. n my dada ji was 6'1'' what a pair !! ;)) standing beside her.. made me feel sooo gr8 :D .. i mean.. she is 7'' shorter than me.. :D .. but its been ages.. i dun remember when was the last time i felt so gr8.. she has been using walker.. and has been almost bed ridden since last 2 years i guess .. :/

newayz.. last sunday unhone mere sir ki tel malish champi ki.. she was scolding me.. .. coz i had not put oil since like eternity.. :D .. and coz she thought i got my hair coloured :P .. she even gave me her chain n pendant a few days back..she got some bank account transfered on my and sachins name.. i dunno y she is doing all this.. i dun want all this.. and she keeps tellin me .. to take care of her .. and my parents .. :/

today she was getting bored.. so i asked her to tell me some stories.. she had a problem even trying to recollect the rabbit and tortoise story.. but she tried to recollect em all. and recited em to me.. :) she recited some stories of radha-krishna ... shiv-parvati.. ganapati ji.. n sai baba .. i loved it.. :) that made her smile.. n thats all i wanted to see.. my dadi ji smiling :)

ill go there tomm :) if that makes her happy :) there r some things in life more important than.. studies.. money time ..i might not spound practical to max human population.. but at the end of the day .. this is all tat matters.. she is the person who did soo much n brought my father up.... she was there around me.. from the day i was born till today :) .. n if the doctors say its her last week ..( i know they r wrong) ill do my best to make these days worth while.. :) i hope she gets well soon..i know she will...in such an age the treatment is more phycological than medical.. if the person loses hope.. he/she loses life.. simple as that.. if she smiles.. she will get fine.. i know that.. n i hope that im right :)

hehe.. dadi .. abhi to aap mere baccho .. k baccho k baccho ko dekhogi :D .. dun worry. tension lena ka nahi dene kaa....
love ya..
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nidhi